Domestic Violence Information and Resources
The National Domestic Violence Hotline in the U.S. is
1-800-799-SAFE
"Studies of battered women similarly report a tenacious suicidality. In one group of a hundred battered women, 42% had attempted suicide.
Thus, former prisoners carry their captors' hatred with them even after their release, and sometimes they continue to carry out their captors' destructive purposes.in their own hands. Long after their liberation, people who have been subjected to coercive control bear the psychological scars of captivity.
They suffer not only from a complex post-traumatic stress syndrome, but also from profound alterations in their relations with God, with other people, and with themselves. In the words of Levi: "We have learnt that our personality is fragile, that it is in much more danger than our life; and the old ones, instead of warning us 'remember that you must die', would have done much better to remind us of this greater danger that threatens us.
If from inside the Lager, a message could have seeped out to free men, it would have been this: take care not to suffer in your own homes what is inflicted on us here."
-Judith Herman, M.D.; Trauma and Recovery: The aftermath of violence - from domestic abuse to political terror;1992; Basic Books